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Friday, 28 February 2014

YOUNG MARRIAGE



Assalamualaikum. 

Just a very short reminder for us :)


'Uqbah bin' Amir RA said, Prophet Muhammad, Messenger of Allah said : 
"The best of marriages are the easiest." (Narrated by Abu Daud)

In nature, the desire to marry already exists in human since childhood. Starting as a partner in kindergarten and then to primary school until university. 
Inherently begins with a desire to have friends. This bushel earlier been described by Allah : 


"Among His signs is that He created God for you wives from among yourselves, that ye may be pleased with it and made between you love. Surely in this are signs for those who reflect." ( Surah al - Rum 30:21 )

Not a question of ' itch '
No term ' itchy ' for teens who want to get married if they know their roles and responsibilities after marriage. In fact, it's normal for every man who stepped into the age of ' young blood ' . While a married person is still some desire to marry again , especially unmarried !
Feeling the desire to get married is the process we go through the normal realm of puberty . If the feeling is prone to the same sex , and the inverse problem .
Islam desires is to manage mood by their nature by way MARRIAGE ! 

A long time ago, got married at a young age is a part with the habits and practices in our society. Girls as young as 12 years have been the wife of the man. However, the situation may be quite different now.

For letters this time, I feel compelled to share about the marriage issue - more specifically, young married !

MISUNDERSTANDING MEANING OF MARRIAGE PREPARATION
  • When they reach a certain age as 30 mature new year is calculated as 
  • When one is graduated at university 
  • When you have a career and own a stable financial resources 
  • When you already have assets such as homes and vehicles

There are four things to look for before getting married at a young age.

FIRST : YOUNG TIME

Adolescence or teenagers is the fastest time to enjoy, aged between 15 years to 25 years. If we look back history, many Islamic leaders able to achieve extraordinary success in their teenage years .
Among the Sultan Muhammad al-Fatih conquered the city of Constatinopel,  the city is immune in decades time. However, Salahuddin al - Ayubi, in his teens, he was appointed to head the armed forces.
In our times , the situation may be different, but the achievement should be better.
Prophet Muhammad said in a hadith : " A strong believer is more loved by Allah than a weak believer. " ( Reported by Muslim)
Thus, a strong young energy to be filled by adding knowledge, doing missionary work, devoted to family and community. If the young married missionary to gain momentum, then go ahead. :)
But if to get married at a younger age limit missionary movement or the pursuit of knowledge, then prioritize things according to need. Al- Shahid Hassan al -Banna said: "Duty is much more than time ! "
In conclusion, lets fill and decorate our chest with the knowledge and multiply the beneficial practices.

SECOND : RESPONSIBILITY

Every people taking responsibility as a servant and vicegerent on earth. Make friends, choose a bride at a young age should take into consideration other obligations that are undertaken .
Note that responsibility either as students and children. If we choose to set up a ' mosque ' at a young age , it will also mean increased responsibilities , titles held no longer confined as children or students , but more than that as law , husband, wife , mother or father .
At this time, the responsibility should be a catalyst for us more mature in action. If the existing responsibility should have been carried out, then there is no problem for young marriage. 
Message me, execute existing responsibility wisely before daring new responsibilities. :)


THIRD : PREPARATION

Preparation covers the knowledge , financial , mental and physical . Some of us who are ready physically and mentally, but financially and science has not yet stabilized . At the very least, make sure that all these things are moderately preparation.
Make friends who choose to marry young , financial planning from the beginning. And you should never ignore knowledge, especially religious knowledge as well as knowledge of the household. Reading a lot of books and be with people who are more experienced.
Understand the laws and basics of home construction is more pleasing to Allah SWT. Most cases dissociation occurs at a young age due to a lack of religious knowledge, knowledge of housekeeping and failure to control emotions .
In conclusion, remember marriage is not just for fun. :)

FOURTH : SKILLS

Skills among the important aspects to be considered . If ever we are totally dependent on their parents and family , after my marriage , we need to be more independent. It is becoming a trend nowadays delivery price is determined by academic certificates and material factors. Unfortunately, the skills do not deserve attention.
Some of couple who are young marriage may not find difficulty managing the household when they still borne by the their parents. Moreover, when both of them phase study.
However, not a reason for us to sharpen or add skills such as cooking, sewing, or looking for extra income . We need smarter dividing his time between studying to find space for household skills .
My message, before choosing to get married at a young age , Prepare the basic skills to build relationships that pleases Allah SWT.
Married at a young age is not just an excuse to avoid evil, but must be used as a form of worship. In order to ensure that built mansions receive the blessings and grace of Allah SWT, always put knowledge as basic and important things in life.
Do not waste a young age thinking only of our heart, but rather aim to be the best people.

Who is the best people ? 
They are the proceedings of benefit to others :)

ADVANTAGES AND BENEFITS OF YOUNG MARRIAGE
  • Worship and relationship with Allah grows stronger. 
  • Heart feel calm 
  • Relations between mother father and siblings become more  friendly
  • Responsibility and heavy burden shouldered feel lighter and easier to implement. 
  • Focus on education and employment is increasing and quality 
  • More and more learning event attended, then shared with family 
  • Thoughts and actions more mature and responsible 





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