A man named DAD

I do not know why all of a sudden I want to write because there just now read a status on Facebook and accidentally touched my heart. Well,

"My daughter.
Well I will not pregnant you ,
but his blood flowing in your blood , his name is attached to your name.
Well I will not gave birth to you,
but his voice first send and introduce you on God when you were born.
Well I will not feed you,
but from his every drop sweat of your milk .
My dear daughter,
Dad did not take care of each moment ,
but explain to you in his prayer there is always mentions your name .
Crying dad probably never heard of you because he wants to look strong so that you do not hesitate to seek refuge in the arms and chest when you feel insecure . Hug your father may not be as warm and intensely mother , because he was afraid that his love would be willing to make him not let you go and away from you.
He wants you to be independent, so that when he and your mother is not around, you are willing and determined to face all the realities of life yourself.
Deep within his heart, he just wants to be able proud of you in the eyes of the Prophet SAW, a helper in the hereafter and the veil of the hell fire.
Mom just wanted you to know that...
Dad love thee with a love as great as my love.

"Keep always the feeling of love and affection from your father , and do not decide , for they then God will put out the light from thee " ( Narrated by Bukhari )

My dear daunghter,
Father heavenly also have there for you as though heaven is under the feet of your mother, but also loving father will led and brought together into a heaven."

About Dad. I am sure many of us close to the mother than the father . Anything looking mother. Why somehow. And frankly, I myself was like that. All people called me the ' daughter of the father ', but from my perception, I am closer to my mother . Actuality, a child is more attached to his mother. The bond of love that people say is stronger . Or maybe because I am a girl, and my mother's as well as women naturally this communication easier. I am not sure.

I really a stubborn children. Always hot with my father. Until sometimes I feel what I did I say close all wrong. And with young blood, I like to do the head. If I fight, I m still with chest pain near the liver .

Do not berate me. Do not try to advise me. Not that I deny my mistake . I just want we look back on ourselves. What's all your life to be a child , never once did you feel and do what I have to do?

Until one time, when I was getting even adults . I began to realize how difficult it is, a father brought me up. This point, I started to change perceptions . Hot and my cynical nature of my father. The escape attempt. Start to learn to control. For me, I want everything to be opponents. Sticking with silence. Not much, but still and silence. That means that I try to practice. I am trying. I and father from the past to now never a breakdown in communication. Every day I say hello and sometimes joked in his own way. Because for me, do not do it myself to ignore the father, do not you regret it later .

I myself am not sure why, and I personally always recall the sacrifice of a mother so sometimes forget mainly service the father . Always to proud of the mother to forget the existence of the father to be honored. Pursuit of Heaven under your feet to overlook the key principal of heaven is on the father .

When the mother discouraged, her worried like hearing thunder in the sky. She talked about father , discouraged newspapers like never exist in the dictionary. Let me ask, did you ever realize now when he was upset? Or do not you ever care? The nature of the mother's easy to say powerful all crystallized, but not the father who would rather save and latency. When asked, his answer is easy and still like it used to. And sometimes the nature of a father that makes him continue to grow old together in the silent heart.

Sometimes I thought, what would my dad think, what he thought?

Many children take for granted in both the father and father 's perception of men. Ordinary men are strong and brave. Sure he can take care of yourself and keep feeling more like a man. For that reason, beside the father and let you continue to pay attention to him. But what you forget my dear, dad is still a dad. Fixed and still want to be pampered by their children. Only high ego makes him remained silent as all do not mind. While in the heart, only God knows .

Preferred state capital from his own father made ​​me wonder at yourself. All these years I am pretty fair to my mom and also my dad. If the unborn child is often questioned the fairness of the mother and father of a number of children , but we are the children how? Just have a mother and a father to split service and love and should not even exist for the problem. But let's be conscious of what you served, what you love, do you love them as fair as possible?

I cannot say I have been a good daughter, or act like perfect. Do not think I am writing this on a righteous act. This is just to say and express my feeling from my own heart.

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